I forgot I also went to Holi!

1 year 8 months post-op.

1 year 11 months on T. 1 year 8 months post-op. 
General update. I’m also tired so please excuse me not making sense at some parts.


Trans people from across Asia & the Pacific talk about trans rights in their countries—and what needs to change. It’s a powerful 5 minutes.

(Also: a reminder that we are everywhere.)

A message from Anonymous
man i gotta say, you kind of are my encouragement as a transguy. uhh, i was wondering, how does the surgery work like, idk im just horrified of it being overly painful and i've never had surgery before so im really scared for when i go to get mine.

Wow! But don’t be scared! I know it has been a long time since you asked this, but I’m writing up a FAQ where I’ll have my experience written out for you (and everyone). I will hopefully get that up very soon! Feel free to ask me anything off anon and I’ll answer privately :j 


FREE CeCe trailer

I lost my shit, I think maybe someone is chopping onions near me

New York!

I’ll be in New York from April 3-8th. I’ll have free the 4th (until that night. 6ish) and some of the 7th if anyone wants to meet up! I’ll be staying in Lake Grove on Long Island, but can take a train to the city. I’m definitely going to Central Park, but I don’t know what else to do (free or fairly cheap). Suggestions?

A message from Anonymous
heyyyy um so this is a dumb thing to say but you got top surgery on my birthday. which is also harry potters birthday. and j.k. rowlings. so if ur an hp fan i guess um.. uh. ahah this sounded better in my head *scurries awaY QUICKLY*

Haha! Cool! I’m not a huge fan by any means, but I do enjoy it. Don’t hate me, but I’ve never read the books :/ blame my mom; she never let me read/watch/buy Harry Potter anything, even as a gift. I should read them now but they’re not at the top of my list at the moment. 

Gyno appointment

Went to the gynecologist this morning. It wasn’t so bad at first; there were only three women and they were on the other side of the room. Then as more time went by (the doc was held up in surgery), more women started showing up till it was a pretty full waiting room. My anxiety level definitely increased some. I was so thankful that no one asked me why I (a guy and alone) was there. Once I got called back, the nurse was really great and funny which helped A LOT. The exam is always awkward, but my doctor is really chill and was excited that I was doing so well. She also said I could come back every two years which is cool.

It’s important to get tested!